{"id":286,"date":"2019-01-15T18:09:49","date_gmt":"2019-01-15T18:09:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ldinmanbooks.com\/?p=286"},"modified":"2019-01-15T18:16:30","modified_gmt":"2019-01-15T18:16:30","slug":"best-of-blog-friendship-essays","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/ldinmanbooks.com\/index.php\/2019\/01\/15\/best-of-blog-friendship-essays\/","title":{"rendered":"Best of Blog: friendship essays"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Back when I started the project that became <em>Ryswyck<\/em>, I felt pretty lonely talking about friendship as a driving moral imperative in stories. Now, though, my friends link me to Twitter discussions of friendship as an Actual Love, and big-name bloggers are tagging friendship as the stuff to give the troops, as Bertie Wooster would say.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So I decided to file some of my past posts on the subject as Best of Blog articles on this site. (<a href=\"https:\/\/ldinmanbooks.com\/index.php\/the-writer-and-eucatastrophe\/\">The Writer and Eucatastrophe<\/a> also technically counts as a best of blog article, but since it&#8217;s as close to a manifesto for this site as I&#8217;m ever going to write, it gets its own menu link.) Eventually I&#8217;ll probably add more posts from the ol&#8217; catacombs, but this is obviously the most pressing and relevant topic, so here they are:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/ldinmanbooks.com\/index.php\/blog\/let-the-circle-be-unbroken-friendship-and-eros-in-stories\/\">Let the Circle Be Unbroken: Friendship and eros in stories<\/a>, originally published 12\/31\/13<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>and its later sequel<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/ldinmanbooks.com\/index.php\/blog\/friendship-eros-and-some-notes-on-the-queens-thief-series\/\">Friendship, Eros, and some notes on the Queen&#8217;s Thief series<\/a>, originally published 5\/24\/17.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(I note that the tone of these articles, especially the first, is rather defensive; years in fandom has exposed me to a lot of shipping drama, and if you&#8217;re going to come out and say you prefer gen stories rather than erotic ones, you have to hedge it all around with assurances that you&#8217;re not some kind of purity freak, or outright homophobe for that matter. Let&#8217;s just say for the record that the Nutrition Facts on this site do not include either purity freakage or homophobia.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>By the way, if you have not yet discovered <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Megan-Whalen-Turner\/e\/B001IGHIEG\">Megan Whalen Turner<\/a>&#8216;s Queen&#8217;s Thief books, you are so in for a treat. I can&#8217;t even remember who put me on to these books (probably R.J. Anderson, but it&#8217;s lost in the mists of time), but they are fabulous, clever, innovative, compelling, and witty and you should go read them right now (while you&#8217;re waiting for <em>Ryswyck <\/em>to come out).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There, I think that will do it for today.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Back when I started the project that became Ryswyck, I felt pretty lonely talking about friendship as a driving moral imperative in stories. 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